Just an Observation...

I was thinking about this the other day... Not sure why, but out of the blue I was thinking about people I normally see all the time and now I don't... Not sure why that is... I'm not really complaining, but find it interesting... 

When we lived in Veyo, I think I seen certain friends alot more than I do now that I live in town and closer to most of them... One of my friends or ex-friends moved away, and that's OK since she wasn't really a friend at all... But a few others I would see all the time and now I think it's been the longest time... I know in part it is because of all the things going on in everyone's life and in my life too... I have spent most of my summer not feeling good... 

Maybe it's kinda like when we first moved to Utah... We would would go to certain places all the time and would want to check out the new environment... Once we knew these things like Zion, Snow Canyon and other places like that was there to stay, there was no real hurry to plan a trip to go to these places... 

But then there have been times when certain people were only meant to be in our lives for a short time and that is it... Do we as humans read more into things than we should? I think so... There have been some friends that I haven't seen for years and when we see each other, we take off from the last time we talked... But then there are other friends that are close by that I rarely see... I know this is a random thought and it isn't much to do about anything... 

Then the thought came to mind that who are our real friends... Do we actually know for sure and how can we tell? Are some people meant to be bleeps in our lives and that is it... They come and go and nothing more...But then you have those in your life that you think are friends and they are nothing more than someone who wants to control and do things on their terms... If things aren't the way they want it, then there is nothing... A friend of mine(Diana) is going through that right now... Which is sad... She has a friend and she thought they were good friends and then she finds out that it was more of a control thing... I hope she reads this posting and that she learns that she doesn't need these kind of people in her life...