Sunday, February 6, 2011

Random Thought of Miss Understandings and Miss Quotes

It's interesting to know that so much can be read into a tiny little statement and by someone you never see... I got thinking about this today when a friend... I wonder how many times something we say is taken out of context or said to someone else who has no clue...

I have found over my life that this happens quite often... My family isn't the closets, but I still love them for the most part, lol... I may hate what they do, but still love them... I won't mention any names in here... It is what it is... One of the things that always got me is when you haven't seen the person in like forever, they still think they know everything that is going on without even talking to the person... It's like this little tiny brain fragment got stuck in fairytale land... Yes, there has to be a fairytale land! Thats the place where all the little tiny fairies are going to make you miraculously rich or speak sweet nothings in your ears about half truths and downright lies... We are pretty much warned against these kinds of people that do these things in the Bible, so it doesn't really bother me much unless it's family telling these white lies, then I want to deck them and excommunicate them out of my life completely.

For instance this one person in my family and I am sure everyone has someone like this... This person will say anything that he thinks can be said and repeat information to another without really knowing the facts or what is behind a statement that was read... It may be a statement that has absolutely nothing to do with anything or just a random vent or thought, and then it is repeated half way across the world... I think that is alot of the reason I live where I do, it keeps me supposedly out of the bickering and such that seems to go on or what becomes one sided... I do get a kick out of hearing about something I may have said from another person and then I have no clue at all... After thinking about it, I remember that it has nothing to do with what was even discussed, it was just a quote you found on the internet, lol and thought, that it may apply to something... I think thats why I stay out of family things though... Too much is made of nothing and then it's a hornets nest over nothing... Like I said I love them all for the most part and may even get mad at them, but that doesn't mean I have to like what they do...

For the most part this is just one of those random thought posts that just came to mind after a brief conversation with a friend, nothing more, nothing less... But if you are one of the many who read more into this blog post, you may want to ask me outright if it is about you... I will have no problem letting you know :) Usually if something is directed at an individual, they will know it for sure... I have no problem telling you that, so don't read more into something before you know the actual facts, but then again, don't we all jump to conclusions on a almost daily basis?

But there is one thing that bugs me, lol When I get ready to post a blog and then accidentally delete the previous days one, ughhh... Not sure I should redo or just leave well enough alone! Hmmm will have to think on that one :)

2 comments:

JenJen said...

sorry that everyone has the same type of ppl in their family. we have that and my family is no exception.

Sandie said...

Yeah, its a pain... but i guess if we didn't have those kind of people, we wouldn't appreciate all the other ones we are blessed with :)